A man can cheat on his woman and still love her but a woman cannot cheat on her man and still love him. I say this because while men do not have s*x with emotions, women can’t have s*x without attaching emotions to it. This is the reason men simply need a place to have s*x while women need a reason to have s*x.
Most women who take their husbands to court for divorce are those that cheat on their men. A non cheating woman would most likely never take her husband to court for divorce, unless the man exceedingly abuses her physically and emotionally to the point of killing her.
Men don’t equate s*x with love. A man can have s*x with another woman but still doesn’t love her. That’s why women who fell in love with married men find it difficult to find happiness in those relationships as they are just being used by those married men. But once a married woman starts sleeping with you, she can even narrates some hidden secretes concerning her husband and she will even tell you why she hates him (her husband). She can even accept poison from you to eliminate her husband.
For men, s*x and love are two different things. But for women, s*x and love are one and the same things. For men, s*x comes first before love (infatuation), but for women love comes first before s*x (true love). Therefore, once your woman starts having s*x with another man/men, her love shifts from you to that man and she can even start giving that man the best food and love than she gives you.
The fact that your man is cheating on you doesn’t mean he has stopped loving you. But I can’t say the same for women. Once a woman starts cheating on you, she has fallen for someone else and you people will never live the same again. And she can even kill her husband once she starts cheating on him.
If your wife starts cheating, you should be a lucky man not to die in less than 10 years. It has been found that 95% of women who cheat wish their husbands dead. That is the main reason why it is dangerous for a man to continue staying with a wife who cheats on him. That is why is now encouraged everywhere in the world including in the Bible, for a man to divorce his wife only once she starts cheating on him. Cheating women are more deadly to husbands than ordinarily criminals or weapons. There are many cheating women in the world who invite criminals to break into her house at night only to come and eliminate her man and police officers plus relatives can’t detect this as the same woman tend to mourn more than any person at the funeral so as to attract sympathy and hide her evil acts.
That’s why psychologists discourage women,more than men, from cheating.
Women can’t handle the emotional conflict that comes with cheating.
That’s the reason an observant and intelligent man will notice that his wife has started cheating on him once he starts doing it because most women tend to lose respect to their husbands and try to avoid s*x with them in most times.
Cheating Women will even be giving excuses for not wanting to have s*x with their husbands. Study has revealed that nearly 90% of women who cheat find it hard to have enjoyable s*x with their husbands, again an intelligent man will detect this once his wife’s behavior with regard to s*x start changing. But a dull man can never detect this and always tolerate fake excuses from his cheating wife until he is completely eliminated.
Women can’t cheat on their partners with people they are not emotionally involved with. They attach emotions to everything. That’s why you can’t always trust their judgment. When a joke is cracked,most women who laugh are not laughing because the joke is funny but because they like the person who cracked the joke. If they don’t like you, no matter how funny your joke may be, they won’t laugh, but when a man laughs at a joke, it’s because the joke is funny, not because he likes the comedian. Men are not always sentimental and emotionally involved.
Study has shown that every relationship begins to flounder once a woman starts cheating. There are many men who cheat on their partners but still show them true love. But it is very hard to find a relationship in which a woman is cheating and things still remain the same.
I repeat, nearly 100% of cheating women wish their husbands quick death or divorce to have unlimited s*x freedom while nearly 100% of cheating men can’t wish their wives quick death or divorce. That is why most men cant allow their wives to be physically or verbally abused by their girlfriends. Men will always stand for their wives.
A man would cheat but still love and respect his wife, but the opposite is true with cheating women.
Once your wife starts sleeping with other men/man, just know that your death is near.
R.M – Professor of Psychology
Ohio State University – USA
Jamaican women must have been excluded from this study, because they will surely have sex without any form of emotional attachment. If you notice on this site, women always refer to sex as she is “f**king” so and so, always avoiding the term “love making”. Not unusual for Jamaican women to have multiple “lovers” simultaneously or not averse to having one-night stands (a male opinion).
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The connotation of ‘Love making’ implies freaky sex and weakness in character to us, culturally. We have Christianity and slavery to thank for that thinking.
I will have sex with a man tonight and tomorrow he can’t even speak to me because i don’t like him no more
It is hard to believe that a professor of psychology wrote this. First of all what studies you’ve been reading? Please send the links. Infidelity is caused by numerous reasons, some women cheat as a result of years of their husbands infidelity or just looking refuge from emotional turmoil in their marriage. It is sexist to describe women as capable of killing their partners because they are unable to control their emotions after cheating. Professor you need to review some real studies and interview women (not just one) and come back with some real facts! Also you need to write your views in regards to cheating husbands, and mention how much wives where killed by their cheating husbands to be with their mistresses. example Scott Peterson, Kashif Parvaiz just to name a few.
Support your argument too. What studies you uaing to counter what’s written?
This is a bag of bull. Cuz i have sexed and not loved. Love the sex but not the man. I do prefer to have sex with men I care about because sex without love is an empty experience.
Him sound hurt bad! I can’t stop laughing at this.
I agree with the part about the female not being in love if she cheats…However, it doesn’t mean that she’s in love with who she is cheating with. Some women can and do separate sex from love.
How yuh mean kill dem bloodclaat yes!! Mi waaaah kill a few well, a just caaah mi know mi naaa go get wey wid it. Dah study yah a mussi like politics dem naaaaaa add di numbas good a swear….. Cause mi a mussi waaah diff species.
A muss waaaah man wey wife nearly kill him come up wid dis… A wah duh you sir.
Anonymous 11:56 am here are some studies that can back up my argument.
Helen Fisher, PhD, biological anthropologist, Rutgers University; author of Why Him? Why Her? and Why We Love; chief scientific advisor to chemistry.com
Risk Factors Associated with Women’s Marital Infidelity
Contemporary Family Therapy, 2014, Volume 36, Number 3, Page 327 Michelle M. Jeanfreau, Anthony P. Jurich, Michael D. Mong
Anonymous 8:43am
I disagree wid what”s written in this article. People cheat because they are lacking something. Or for some its also greed. Woman also are fed up with men taking them for granted. Sometime men force their women to find a good f**k outa door, and when they sometime embark on did, its an awakening. This is what some men don”t want cause they feel that they should be the man fi tun dem woman eyes white. Poor ting, as usual woman have to deal wid these men who are really little boys.