HMID, I always av a feeling I’m not liked by my in laws anyways mi keep it cordial. They only on my WhatsApp but I buck up d sis-in-law IG n go fi falla ar jus to see d Xmas dinner we had together, she posted a collage with everyone tht was there excluding me (her other brothers’ girls were there too n she posted dem) . I sent to my BF n he says it looks a way n I shouldn’t worry if she doesn’t like me bla bla jus ignore it… bare in mind every time she sees me she’s like, ‘dnt be a stranger, contact us more often etc.’ I teach her how to do her makeup + we go shopping at times. So I thought nw we were cool n to see this nw. So mi say me ago send it to her n ask ar seh I thought I was there too?.. afta me send ar she call mi man a cuss seh if anuh fi ar IG she post who want n she ago ans mi!! Which she didn’t caz she lef mi pan read lol… Now every other day she throwing shades on ‘status’..
best believe if she didn’t talk to me n it was jus hi & bye I wouldn’t feel a way about the picture but this b**ch act like we’re cool so I couldn’t help but confront her, my frenz think I shouldn’t av but I’m jus a straight forward person who can’t do d bagga fakeness. I feel even worst now that she hasn’t replied caz dis mre dan prove seh d gyal nu like me and only a use mi! His mom says she thinks I’m being silly ova a pic smh. My boyfriend says he’s going to get to d bottom of it as soon his training is over n regardless of d outcome it’s me ova dem… I want to delete dem frm my WhatsApp but also want them to see that mi n him na go nu weh! I muted her status for a wk,jus to go bk n see she is still throwing shade🤣
I feel like if I start throwing bk shade I’m giving dem d ammunition to end us. D whole situation is bothering me n making me unhappy n wen I tlk to him abt it now he’s getting upset. Idk wat to do…😔
Caz If I start throwing shade enu! TPC! She has a baby for a married man who still lives with his family, he told her to dash it weh n she brought it n now she sitting dwn waiting for him to left his wife ova a year n all nw! Sis you’re in a whole relationship with yourself, by yourself for yourself!! You immoral bumbohole ‼️
If I was u, I wouldnt have said anything about the pic. You made yourself seem immature and dramatic. There may have been a number of reasons why she left you out of the pic. You weren’t even on her insta so maybe she never saw a reason to post you. It might not have been anything malicious. However, She could have responded to you in a more diplomatic way, and simply told you that there was no malice intended if This was the case… it does sound like she has an issue and has taken it out of proportion, but she probably thinks the same about you!! maybe the two of you have crossed wires. Personally, mi never too inna in laws, but if it’s bothering you so much, why don’t you be the bigger person and reach out to her. Just say hey, I know you must have taken what I said the wrong way, but I didn’t mean to cause any animosity, I just felt left out. I would really love if we could get over this and start again. And if she still reacts badly you know she has a problem and you have the benefit of being the bigger person.
Sender yuh too salty.
The woman can post whatever she wants on her IG. You really acting petty and like a social media mad-woman.
She owes you nothing, you owe her nothing. She not obligated to tell you her feelings. Same for you.
No man should rebuke his family for a GF. Family more important than girlfriends or boyfriends.
It is something that wealthy and rich people know and understand. Only an idiot chooses fuck over family.
GF and BF will leave once they don’t get what they want. Family is forever.
Girl I know you will feel a way but just gwane bill and go thru if you love you BF..Continue to be cordial with the family but nuh try look no fren from dem
Don’t curse out anybody, take my advice if the man loves you and you were meant to be together they don’t count. You don’t have to be friends with them just be respectful and don’t give them a reason to turn on your boyfriend and throw it in his face about what kind of woman him deh wid blah blah. Take it from someone who has been married for over 17 years with the worse set of in laws ever! just blank them and live your life.
Johnnybegood guh suck out yuh mother deep underneath some family a pussycloth crosses and red eye and badmind. Shun dem blood cloth when them want ex up inna yuh relationship and yuh can’t fuck and breed dem. Some family only like things and money and will hate a girl friend because they feel they come between that. Bout don’t chose girlfriend over family. Some in-laws a John Rowland and mi live through that.
Sender she doesn’t like you,and excluded you on purpose. You shouldn’t have confronted her though, you gave her exactly what she was looking for. I would say try not to let it bother you, and greet them with the biggest smile every time you see them.