Hmid pinky Goodmorning. Wallers I just have a question. Why are men so cruel? Me and the father of my child came to the decision that I’m not going to allow my newborn to leave where I live so young to spend time with the father until he’s old enough. We agreed on it but because we had a disagreement he decided he wants the child to start spending time with him instead of coming to my home like what he was already doing. I explained to him that we already came to an agreement and I’m going by what I said before. I’m 3 weeks postpartum and can you believe I asked this man for some baby items and he told me that I should figure it out then went on to say I should get my behind up and go fend for my child. Imagine I went through so much to bring forth his child that he cried and begged for, begged me not to dash it away. I have 3rd degree tears stitches that are basically still healing and a prolapsed pumpum. I’m still sore and bleeding I cannot work right now.
The burden is on my mother she’s the one doing everything for the child and I think it’s unfair because she wasn’t the one that got me pregnant. He was doing things at first yes but it was just a one time thing. Now he’s playing the victim to make it seems as if I’m a bad person. He always plays the victim and switch everything up to make it look like I’m the big problem. He’s a narcissist and I’m fed up.