Hi pinky. This is going to be a bit long but I would really like to hear the viewers’ opinion on this issue, especially the ones that are married or have been in a relationship for long time.. I’m 26 my husband and I have been married for 4 years, however, he’s been in the USA before we got married nd I’m still in JA. He works and we only get a chance to talk whenever he is finished with work. He gets off at 4. Most times we would talk bout 30 mins or so then would go freshen up and prepare food and what have you. My problem is that he spends more time with himself than with me. If him ave like 5 hours free time, him will spend like 1 or 1 1/2 hour n the phone with me and the other 4 or 3 1/2 hours he spends having his personal time. Time management has always been my problem with him. I don’t ask for much because I’m not a fussy girl but it’s like that’s too much to ask for.
About 2 months ago we had an argument about how he spends his time and this man tell me seh is like me want him spend 24 hours a d day on the phone straight with him nd if that’s what I want, him not going to agree with that. First of all, I never once told him I wanted him to be on the phone with me 24hrs straight because that’s crazy. I acknowledge the fact that everyone needs their personal time but why does he not feel any way going all 2,3,4 hours without talking to me and it’s not like he’s doing anything more than being on his phone. Sometimes me will all a text this man n him just stop text then an hour or so him will text nd tell me him did a do or some shit like that…. Why can’t u just say u gonna do something before heading off. All the time I complain about it and he behaves as if I’m asking him for a lot. I am out here keeping myself to myself. I have never once entertained another man from I’ve been in a relationship with him nd all I ask for is his time.
He is supposed to want to talk to you every chance he gets, he probably has another woman. That is usually the case sadly. It is unfortunate that you are going through this.
Sender yuh sound insecure bad.
Chic wake the fu@k up he with someone else. Obviously he spend the time in the car or outside talking to you and then go home to whoever he with. When he talk to you next time do a video chat… wake him up middle a night with a call. Chile do you and play the games too.
Girl bun him tek man pon him , seriously though, you probably haffi go find a back up man … sounds like him probably have a next woman . Sorry to say but a so dem dutty man stay, stop investing so much time and energy Ina him, especially if him nah send on nuff USD pon you , you is a damn good woman, plenty man would love to have someone as dedicated and loving as you are, no mek no boy stress you out! focus on you and bettering yourself and getting the bag, If you can’t tek the breakdown in the relationship no more and you’re thinking of exiting the relationship tek yu likkle time and cum out cause nuff a dem dutty man yah love harm yu when you a try leff them, be safe and be blessed goodie
Mi nuh kno wah u really a ask wi seh my gurl…cause if u nuh si di bright light a shine inna yuh yeye, a we a guh si it fi yuh???? Misis hurry up a buss some fuck pon dah husband bwoy deh yah mah! Yuh nuh si di bwoy a fuck any which part him deh lady???!!!!! Jus nuh compromise di green card weh yuh sir patiently a wait pon!
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Mi nuh kno wah yuh really a ask wi my gurl..cause if yuh nuh si di bright light a shine inna yuh yeye, a we a guh si it fi yuh??!! Misis hurry up an buss some fu@k pon dah husband bwoy deh yah mam! Yuh nuh si di bwoy a fu@k any which part him deh ladyyyy???!! Jus nuh compromise di green card weh siddung patiently a wait pon!
Married for FOUR YEARS!!!! Why the Filing dont come thru yet? Ask him bout dat so yuh can really see wha a gwaan a Foreign wid him.
Sender that’s man for u lol. Stop worry das y mi tell myself, I will never love a man to the point where I can’t live or do without him. Most times if my man nuh call me I don’t lol, then him asking if I love him. Sender me dey pon a no care no business attitude when it comes to men now a days. A him put out most of the effort and I do play my roll by making sure his meals are prepared, clothes wash etc. Me control the money, so mi nuh worry bout if man a call me or text me lol. Life too short to worry about man and other irrelevant things. Girl give God thanks for life n nuh mek no man steal ur joy, start pay attention to urself more n read a book or play online brain games to keep u occupied. A the best.