But y bobette lef out the part weh she fi sey she tie the girl man thats y him still wid her she bareface eeh
But y bobette lef out the part weh she fi sey she tie the girl man thats y him still wid her she bareface eeh
I’m convinced this girl is the devil. She rotten from the inside come out.
PLEASE AINT DAFFY GAY LOL WE NEED MORE PEOPLE BRENTY WHE YUH DEH
This bad drag needs to take a sit at the back of the stadium
Which stadium miss?
Any stadium that’s close by…..Ms. Met. Goodmorning
Good morning
Please, sometimes these so called mates or side chicks be doing wifey a favor. Let them not get it twisted that they tek people man. Most of the time side chicks take a man’s f**kery that’s why the man will go to them. Side chicks are Yes woman. They already subject themselves as nothing by setting no standards for a relationship. Most of the time the only reason why they end up being with the “Side Chicks” because wifey kicked them out. Wives don’t condone f**kery. Sometimes these men don’t like the pressure of being the lead of the household. It’s either they’re not helping or not doing enough for their family.
Body language says a lot. When Daffy was with Tiffany, you could see the love in his eyes. He use to hold her tight. Kiss her up all the time. All smiles. I really don’t see that with Bobette. Bobbette is forcing the affection and love. The way he use to look into Tiffany’s eyes, you can see the love he had for her. He doesn’t do that with Bobbette. Don’t you see that Daffy looks like a statue with Bobbette? If you ask me look like a robot?
Tiffany wasn’t condoning his f**kery. That’s why Daffy is with her Bobbette today. Daffy is a kept man and dogs will do tricks for a treat. She ah gwan like she can tek people man. Especially if you get a licky licky man. Please the way Daffy look like him frighten all the time, I’m no surprised if he was fixed.
Mannnnnn If i could love this comment 100 times I would! Mi love it and you ah talk pure facts!
Ha! My spin on it is that down low men will sometimes choose unattractive women to be with and then make these women feel inadequate. They will use this as their reason for not sleeping with the wife meanwhile dem back door nuh av no lock. In her case, she bleaches, has breast implants and booty shots…you soon see she close the gap between her teeth. I witnessed an ex coworker go through discovering that her husband was cheating with a man and he used her obesity as the reason for the lack of sex/intimacy.
Daffy no ready yet, his mouth stink and he smell like cologne and stink body odor. This gal bobbette look stink too like she nasty, something about her look wrong, two duty nasty nothing.
Who is Tiffany? We need to see her Someone post her, pls n thonx
Side Chick: 7 Reasons Why She Is Just His Mistress
Posted by Stephan Labossiere in Advice for Men, Advice for Women, Dating, Marriage | 221 comments |Tags: Cheating, mistress, Relationship Advice, side chick
We live in a society where men having a side chick a.k.a mistress happens way too much. To some men having a woman without a side chick is like having a meal without a drink. Not good in my personal opinion, but there are plenty of women who go along with this dynamic. Sometimes it’s the part they choose to play and other times it is given to them and they try to deal with it. So why is that particular woman finding herself as just his side chick and not the main woman in his life? Well let’s take a look at some reasons why she may choose or be chosen for this role.
Because She Allows It
I always say that if you accept less than you will get less. Many who are side chicks simply allow themselves to be put into this category. They accept the game this man runs on them even when they say they want better than this. If she isn’t aware of the other woman then that is different. Plenty women are aware of the main chick and still choose to go along with the situation. The reality is that many side chicks will eventually if not initially want the top spot and most will never get it.
Side Chick Benefits
Let’s face it, some guys give a great benefits package to their mistress. Lavish gifts, bills paid, and all the two-minute sex sessions she could dream of. For many women this is worth the trade-off of not being the main girl. We can discuss whether this is right or wrong but I’m not getting in to that today. The benefits that the woman will receive including having more flexibility on when she does and does not want to deal with this man makes this arrangement work in her mind. She isn’t truly into him either so for her it’s less hassle and more fun as far as she is concerned.
She Fears A Real Relationship
The truth is our world is filled with damaged and hurt individuals. The disappointments in love and relationships have caused many people to operate with walls up. For some, what better wall to protect yourself than knowingly not being the only woman in that man’s life. Some women figure being the side chick is safer for their heart and emotions, while still providing them companionship at some level. Of course this is risky business because eventually many still develop an unhealthy attachment. Yet and still this situation is appealing to some who think they are “protecting themselves”.
She Only Offers Good Looks & Sex
Unfortunately many women have yet to reach their potential. They haven’t evolved as a woman and they simply get by on great looks and sex. For a lot of men, this is all they want in their side chick, so this woman is a perfect fit. If she wants to truly hold a higher position in a man’s life she then you has to provide much more value than this. For some guys this may be enough to get their top spot but she likely won’t be able to maintain it. A woman has to bring more to the table or be prepared to only get another woman’s sloppy seconds.
She Gets A High From Dealing With Another Woman’s Man
Obviously there is a deeper rooted issue here but at the surface this is an ego boost to many. She likes the fact that she has the next girl’s man running after her. She enjoys doing something that others view as wrong (forbidden fruit). There may be a bitterness factor at play because she has been burned and hurt in the past so this makes her feel like she is in control. It’s just a thrill for her and she really isn’t ready or willing to embrace something with real substance and effort (see #3).
He Can’t Bring Her Home To His Mother
Just because a man wants to have sex with a woman, that doesn’t mean he can ever see himself being with that woman. She will only be his side chick because of that fact and because he knows his family would not accept her as anything more. The specific reasons why can vary with each person and family. Ultimately she provides enough benefits to keep around but that man has to give his family a main chick they can embrace.
She Doesn’t Value Herself As More Than A Side Chick
Low self-esteem can drive people to deal with a lot less than what they deserve, and in this case accept the role of being a side chick. She may have bought into the lie that she can’t do better than this man. That she should appreciate the left over scraps that he feeds her rather than embrace that she deserves receiving a full meal of a man. Maybe she started off not knowing and after it was revealed she found it hard to walk away. Knowing and embracing her worth would help her find the strength to not accept this situation that she knows she is not happy with. This woman should not let that man set her value. She has to realize she is worth much more than this.
There are more ways to look at this topic of women being a side chick / mistress and other reasons to discuss. I will definitely be diving in to them in the future. I couldn’t possibly cover them all in one post but I figured this was a good place to start. Gaining clarity on why people do some of the things they do can help move everyone in a better direction. Make sure to comment and share what you feel are some of the reasons she is just his side chick.