Hello Pinky I am a 1st time writer,plz hide id. Im 21 and i ave a boyfriend, we been together for 9 months and i can honestly say its been a great 9 months no real argument or so. He always tells me he loves me and he really does do little things to show it. I recently catfished him from a friend phone and pretend to be a girl thats interested in him(cute dp n all). same time him text me and ask if i knw the person xyz i said no and he said he was going to stop texting them. Me a try mek this short, him still a text the girl(me) and told the girl he was dating but havent found the rite person. So the girl(me) told him she want to meet up and he agreed saying she was sexy n whatever. I stop everything rite there becaz i was hurt to be honest, Me call him same time n mek him knw a me him a talk to all along n that me done with him, Him start cry n seh he wasnt going to meet her n he was curious how the person get his number so thats why he said all that. I hung up and didnt take none of
about an hour later me see him turn up at my house crying saying “him leave work and him sorry n that him want another chance, him neva did ago meet the person”. Honestly i told him that i forgave him becaz i really do love him. All his family n friends both local n abroad knw and accept me, especially his mom n grandmother, His bestfriend always saying him neva see him act so caring towards any girl n always tease us. I knw he didnt technically cheat on me and i was wrong for what i did but i was just testing him to see what he would do if something like that should happen, but i just keep thinking that he might not go out there to look another girl but if 1 approach him the right way him might stray.
Writing this with tears right now bcaz i dont trust him the same
again, Can i have some positive opinion plzz(male & female). I would like to move on from this but its hard to ignore. Do you think he is worth another chance?
Will you be able to trust him again. If deep down you know that you can’t trust him it is not worth it. Your relationship is not even up to a year yet and he did say he hasn’t found the right one yet. This is not worth saving in my mind.
That man wasting his time with you. Be gone you insecure harlot.
Don’t be a yamhead, you can give him a next chance, but if he fucks up again, go bout yu ways