Good morning Pinky, HMID if you’re gonna post… I just need to vent a lil. Ok so earlier this year I met this guy on my job (we work for the same company just different branches)… We met in like early January and he gave me his number and whatever I didn’t end up talking to him for about 2 weeks when I had to follow up on something then he asked me to use my personal number to call him which I did and we got to vybing. Initially he was sweet,attentive and everything I wish my ex was… but I guess if it seems too good to be true it definitely is. We started having sex and whatever and it was amazing till I realized the conversations got shorter like he wouldn’t talk to me for days then hit me up randomly and I’d answer because by then I liked him a lot. Anyways in my mind we’re still together we just having a bit of a rough patch that I tried to work through cause u know communication is important.
We haven’t had s*x in like 4 months (this from somebody who I couldn’t get off me in the beginning) and that had me questioning if something was wrong with me or what and he kept giving me the same he’s busy with work and crap excuse and I kept saying if I’m important he’d try with me…lol obviously I wasn’t. So recently a friend of mine started talking to him on ig and he’s there flirting with her and asking her to meet up and whatever yet he takes days to answer my messages… he literally answers hers within minutes. I’m really frustrated about it tbh and I don’t know what to do anymore. I’m literally exhausted and emotionally I’m a mess because what hurts the most is that I told him from the beginning that if he’s just gonna wanna play with my emotions he should just leave me alone yet here we are and he’s happy and I’m miserable.
Sorry sender 🙁
This is what most men do.
A close friend of mine told me
a man is always interested and will
walk on water for you.. until you guys
go to bed. Try to move forward and safeguard
your heart next time 🙂