Hmid n post did for me plz , ppl I need unu advice on did matter I have some family members who getting on my last nerve mi seh dem luv use mi things dem n won’t stop beg me money all wen dem see me not working I’m talking from my mom , bro , sis , uncle ,n cuz I don’t really Ave a problem giving dem a small change now n den but a almost every day dem beg mi I’m a young girl in my early 20 , kill dem dead mi rich Tru mi always buy up mi things dem n Nava beg dem a cent , but rite now mi a go Tru some financial crisis before I just Ave 2 twin babies n plus I Ave another child which I’m both mom n fada for dat child ,dem use off my soap , toothpaste , lotion all down to my baby stuff dem a use big grown ppl mi talk dem a get to mi dem eat out mi pickney snack n mi grocery but Tru I’m a kind hearted person I don’t cuss dem so dem constantly doing it all mi seh mi Ave a cuz who deh wi a money man she luv boast bout him n him nor give her ntn she done use of mi soap n lotion all mi babies
Power she done n claim she hot she ntn buy ntn mi tired a dem mi seh di Oda day wen I was in hospital to have baby u can believe a me have to pay dem fair to look for mi n wen dem a left dem still a beg mi more money , dem ppl yah a cold mi a wander dem see mi Ave to babies to take care of n dem still a beg mi n a add more burned pon mi
sender u need to move from that place! u need to speak to ur baby daddy & let both of yall come together & rent somewhere. caz if yuh nuh do dat, yah guh still inna d problem wid dem!
& another thing there’s nothing wrong with saying NO!!!!!
Sender try move from that house. Cause u nah go prosper at all dem cold god know. I hate ppl who behave so.
I have always had the same problem with a lot of my family. My advice would be to distance yourself. That’s what I have started to do and it has done wonders on my life. Since you seem to not want conflict and the stress that comes along with saying no I would say stop telling them when you get things, save up, and move far. It will be hard for them to beg and take what you have if they cannot see what you have. Also, when you buy things for yourself and the kids, hide it away so that they cannot use it. When you move, try your best to not make them get too close again. Also, remember that at the end of the day you have yourself and your babies to take care of. Your family members are grown and they have had time to live their lives. It is not fair or your responsibility to take care of them. You work hard so you and your kids have the right to benefit from it. If they want the same for themselves then they should work harder.
Good luck.