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plz I need some advise so am in long distance relationship with a guy in ja. He is really nice and I love him but I met this other guy I was not attracted to him at first but I said we could be friends but as we talk more and more I’m starting to like him and now it’s clouding my feelings for my boyfriend. My bf is great guy but he is not here and that makes it really hard I don’t want to hurt him cause i know I really do him. my bf and I were planing no starting other family the next time we see each but now am sure if that wat I really want anymore the other guy is great too and the crazy is thing is that we have never had s*x so I know s*x it not clouding my feeling I need help on how to go about this Situation
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Follow your heart,only you know what decision you will make for your future and long term..
Long distant relationships are the hardest, but if your committed and in LOVE with your boyfriend in JA it can work.
Trust me Ive been in a long distant relation for over 4yrs. Nothing beats The excitement of meeting up with your partner now n then.
Both parties have to want it to work.
We need more information in order to offer advice.
…..my bf and I were planing no starting other family the next time we see each…..
I’m interpreting this to mean you are planing on having a child for the BF? Why? What’s the rush? First you get married before starting a family. I think you should continue to date both men until it’s clear who you think makes a better husband/father.
I’m sorry…but how can I put this…hmmmmm…yuh conscience a bother you cuz a ongle it a stop yuh from bruck out like a sore!!The Yardie DON’T do yuh anything ,him great and yuh love him but u willing to risk it all on potential close proximity koki!! :hoax2 :nerd
Girl have fun with the other guy and let your conscious set you free because 9 times out of 10 your man in JA has a woman in JA that he is dealing with. Jamaican men don’t know what it means to be faithful.
sender follow your heart! I’m in a long distance relationship, this year makes 13 years and we’re now happily married. It’s very very hard but once both parties love each other they’ll try to make it work! pray & ask God for guidance & he’ll direct your path!