Hi Pink HMID please. My hus band disrespects me on so many levels. I send for him from Jamaica to be be with me last year. Since he came he hit me while I was pregnant and after and for the sake of my baby I stayed. When we have disagreement he shamed me and packed all of his clothes and left twice to his friends house twice in a year. This weekend while I was at work doing night shift (12 hours) he left my baby with my younger brother friday night and went to Atlanta for sandz and lied that he is working. He did not tell me where he was going I got a email notification that he is Roaming. I bought my house a few months after he arrived in the States as I was living in a basement at the time and I didnt want to have my child there..I stupidly added his name to the title for sake of he is my husband.I am so broken and tired of the disrespect. I only have one child and he is the father. I dont want to feel guilty about letting my child grow without a dad. I am 27 years old I’m so sad.I am American born with jamaican parents. I picked him up knowing he had nothing and want to give him a chance because I loved him. Everyone was telling me otherwise when I did what I did. Now they are right. I am in the house right now with my baby and havent recieved one phone call since he left.If he can lie about something like this that means the relationship is loose.
Please do yourself a favor and leave for the sake of your baby. Get an order of protection immediately so that he can vacate the home under grounds of abuse and fear.
He will hit you again.
I know it is painful but your daughter will be fine growing up in the home without him. File for a divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences. If your don’t have money for that now, the protection order can happen immediately .
Get your parents and family support.
Work on yourself and taking away the pain.
Focus on the love from your daughter.
Hopefully his green card is not complete. He is a dirty old dog and you deserve better love