Hmid pinky..me have a dilema.End up wid 2 man and no know wah fi do.cya go ina 2 much details coz dem ova ya😭 So john and alex..me and john deh from long time. We a come from far and me love john. Our love has been tested and tried and me see it stand the test of time but over the years john hurt me and mi hurt him back to. Somewhere along the way the sparks between us died and a suh me meet alex..Now alex did have a righ out woman and somehow him end up leff har fi me..alex did always know bout john but john nuh know bout alex none atall! Alex now thinks iv left john.Besides the sparks,john has EVERYTHING else.provider.sex good.family man.put me first ina everyting and because me stick by him thru nuff tings him rate me highly.alex isnt as stable minded in that the only thing he really has going for him is the chemistry between us. Him have alot of growing to do in the other areas. Me demand the treatment weh mi want and me can see him a try to live up to the mark
so Over time me end up with strong feelings fi alex but me can tell seh a nuff f** me afi go tru wid him before me get him to the level of maturity weh mi need him whereas john pass di pikney ting already. Me nah sleep with none a them right now because of distance but they both want to talk on the phone for hours which so hard fi juggle. Both want a child soon and the 2 a dem a plan proposal and marriage. Now u know if me breed fi 1 a dessuh it done fi the next 1. As much as me develop feelings fi alex,me just cya see miself a tell john seh me a leff him fi next man.me so used to him that me cya imagine me life without him. It would break his heart and at the same time me nuh know how fi cut off alex either because he has also invested alot of feelings now. Right now me a wait and pray seh 1 a dem fuck up so i can have a reason to leave 1 but the 2 a dem just a go hard suh! Any suggestion on how to break it off or who choose?
your story too long, dont ask pink nothing because even if pink give u a decision u still gonna do what u feel like, why uno always write in bout what to do when uno done know uno gonna do what uno damm well and feel like. tek the two a dem and dey wid dem since u want advise, gwan dey wid them, marry them too damm ediot. is ur pussy so u can do what u want gal, tek man.
Why the hellp you tell the two of them about JMG? Ya fool?
Met did you ever hear back from the person that wrote the dancehall story? I forgot her name (Belly). I for got the title of the story as well, but I would love if she could post more. Back then I would be at work and couldn’t wait to get home. sometimes my hubby would log on and copy and email it to me due to how I couldn’t wait. lol
You know what? I like you. Mi always ova ya ah cuss the gyal them wey have story SIMILAR to yours…but you, no baby . You vibsy and story spicy and you seem cautious and safe and so on for lack of better terms. I think it all boils down to…John. John seems to have everything (as you say) going for him that YOU like? Are you willing to invest time into grooming Alex while on the verge of a possible lifetime commitment? Hmmm
It seems your scheme will work. I’ll definitely done it before …just wait for someone to F up and then dip . Pray it’s Alex maybe ?
You and John seem mature TOGETHER. Sure there were problems but you both overcame them TOGETHER. This level of maturity in a relationship isn’t doesn’t happen over night . .. Alex will need to prove this level do relationship maturity for me to say he’s the one.
Good luck !
A non decision is a decision….so its more of the same. You want to be bailed out by default. Wont end well.