Dear Met,Metters and Peepers,
I took in a recent tracing match between two mothers Monday gone and it wasn’t normal. I am yet to ascertain why dem kick off but the details of the cussing centralized around two major basic points.
Mumma A cussing Mumma B that She Mumma B worthless because she mek her 15yo daughter breed pon her.Mumma B in retaliation rush back Mumma A that is she worthless because her 3 daughters were all breeding at the same time under fi her own roof.Met they went at it back and forth with justifications too like-
Yuh harboring a criminal because is rape Yuh daughter get raped and him belong in jail.
Go whey gal the man a mind him yute a dat a bun yuh because a you a wuk out yuh soul fi mind 5 picknies with one on the way.She went on to say none of the 3 daughters’babyfathers even fart pon Mumma A daughters. Mumma B retorted that at least her picknies dem inna dem 20s and never breed young!
So after a while mi walk off but up to yesterday mi did a ponder which one worser!How does a mother has 3young daughters under 25 breeding at the same time under her roof?How does a mother excuses away her daughter being violated because of financial support?? Somehow I ended up blaming absentee fathers because single motherhood is NOT all it’s cracked up to be,so some ppl need fi stop glorify it!
LOL. This is way bigger than single motherhood. Immaturity, ghetto behaviour, poor decisions and volumes of underlining issues aint what it is cracked up to be.
It’s like asking what the lesser of two evils is….I’m going to say that Mumma A with the under age breeding dawta eggs out seemingly karliss mumma B wid the 3 under 25. However I cannot hold mumma B responsible for the choices made by her over 20 year old daughters, for one she probably did as best she could to raise them and provide (guess that’s why den still under her roof). A mother is and always will be a mother so all if dem was 40 she would still want to contribute to them and the children. Now Mumma A now fi go a prison fi child endangerment, neglect and everything else because obviously she knows and upholds the dolly house.
ONLY BLACK MOTHERS GLORIFY SINGLE MOTHERHOOD NO ONE ELSE!!!!
Uneducated women of low socioeconomic status,it’s a cycle of behavior that will never break.