Hide my ID I’ve been in a three year relationship with this man and we have a child together . This is the first time I’ve had to deal with baby mother drama and man cheating and so on, the baby mother is older than both of us she’s in her forties he’s turning 30 and I’m 25 years old . This lady harass me on every social media platform known to man change more than 3 Sim cards already and she and her friends still find and terrorize me . And still with all that I don’t follow her up I still treat her child as I would treat my child , always wonder how she always gets my new numbers until one day I finally sat and went through the messages she sent or listen the voice notes normally I would delete them because I like my peace can’t afford getting all worked up I already have alot going on . Found out they were still having sex , partying together , going beach everything. Also found out that she is the shot caller , she monitor what he does , when he’s around me what he does with my child and how , she disrespect anyone as she please including his mother and he does nothing , this lady brave enough to come all the way to my house to fight me while I was pregnant, burn all his, clothes , disgrace him and still a them that same way , not to mention other women , every dating site known to man , he is on there right now him very popular I even feel embarrassed to be seen out with him because you know Jamaica small , right now him suppose to get customer appreciation gift from whispers because he frequents there very often with multiple females and best believe it if you see him he wouldn’t look it . I have struggled with BV throughout this relationship and I’m sure it’s because of him each time I get it fixed he messes up everything he forces himself on me regardless of if I want to or not refuses to wear a condom , I feel like I’m a hostage I can’t seem to get away from this man funny how it’s okay for him to do whatever and still be so possessive over me , if he sees me as much as laugh to hard at my phone or stand too close to someone he would throw a fit. How can I get rid of this man I need help I can’t deal with this I’ve lost all manner of self worth at this point I’m merely existing the constant torment of his baby mother and knowing he has multiple partners funny thing they all look similar weighty, bleach out and tattooed funny enough he does not want me to look that way , he insists he love the way I am and how I carry myself and I am the only woman who truly deal with him good and has given him all the experiences he has been searching for in his life but how could you say that then go out do what you please come home eat dinner and sleep in my bed . I am exhausted and I need a way out I need to get rid of him , this is the most difficult man to leave , I don’t want it to end in him killing me or one of his women killing or hurting
Mind you I left this man January but still he is all up on me more so than when we were together and I feel this man is trying to hold me back and get in my way of moving forward because he has said that I can’t leave him and he believes it to his core that I can’t leave . But why hold me back and he has so many women ??? Please if this is witchcraft please I need to get out of this toxic cycle I wouldn’t wish this on anyone
Pray and fast about it, God will take you out of it. If you can move from where you are that would be good so he can’t find you and change your number and thing.
Also get the police involved to be on the safe side just in case he tries to hurt you. Don’t you have any close friend or family member who can also help you out and can keep a close eye out in case he tries to hurt you when you leave. Just be on the safe side and leave him whilst you can. Do it when he least expect it, if he wants to play the nice game, play it and leave him. Leave whilst you can and when leaving give him no sign or indication that you will do so. Keep safe and all the best.