Hi. Hide my ID please.
I’ve never done this before.
I live in the Canada.
I have been married to my husband for 3 years.
He was shot in the head at his work.
He’s a Soldier.
He just recovered but have memory loss. So he’s unsure of a Lot of things.
He just told me he has HIV.
But he didn’t know. And his doc confirmed
I wanted to believe he didn’t know and would never put me at risk like that or our child ..but he has some pills that he took the label off before the incident and I recently checked them and they were indeed hiv meds.
We have 1 child together.
I got tested some days ago and I am negative, so is our son.
The doctor say it’s because his HIV is undetected. So it cannot be transmitted if he keeps taking his meds
I am so scared and depressed.
And it’s like I trust no one.
But most of all I feel so sorry for him because he can’t even remember anything.
So now he know he’s hiv positive all over again and he is not taking it well.
What should I do?
Oh wow. Thank God you didn’t catch it or the baby. Kiss kindly divorce him and move far away. What is done in th far mua come to light. Walk in the light please.
Run
Sender though it might be hard for you, since you are negative, I would advise you to stop having intercource with him or, if you do so, please use a condom. This man knew of his status and continued to deceive you, this is so wrong. Him taking it hard now is because his deception has been revealed. The most important thing to remember is that yours and your child health comes first.
God works in mysterious ways, if not for your husband’s injuries, you would still be in the dark about his HIV status. God is good and wonderful.
Good luck.
Lady, how you gonna ask what to do? Ain’t that much love in this b!tch. Leave his trifling a$$.
He is a selfish asshole, even though his viral load was undetectable he still could have passed on the virus to you, if he missed taking just one of his medication, you would be at risk. He should have told you the moment he found out and if he had it before you two got together and didn’t tell you he is a wicked man. I would still help him out and be there for him because he’s the father of my child but that marriage would be over for me.
Me not staying. Nah mek cause a love me catch hiv,him can cut go bout him business and me can’t get no man cause me have it.
He surely remembers to tell you now that he NEEDS you around but didn’t tell you when he thought he would be healthy forever. Leave him and save your life.
he is sick and in sickness you dnt walk away like that, still assist him but no sex, during this time is when we need our partner, it is a rough time but hang in there and make sure not to sleep with him. most talking about run uno too evil, if uno did in a problem uno would a want moral support. gosh yes him put her life at risk but thank God she did not get it.
Make sure you retake that test every six months.
Read in between the lines of this post. First this so called woman’s husband isn’t well, then she ask for her I’d to be hidden then a few sentences down, she is describing what region she is from, then so called woman is describing what type of work her husband does all while describing his injury he received. For anyone that knows them due the description of the story who they are is a dead give away All While Asking to Stay Hidden . The Comments underneath it are Questionable too. PEOPLE LEARN TO READ IN-BETWEEN THE LINES. FAKE STORY AND COMMENTS.
It reads odd fi true. Only the war memorial shoting of a Canadian solider (2014) on the journals. A training accident like that is usually reported. Why the doctors never call her in as a spouse to inform her of his medical issue since him memory gone. His blood went to the lab for that level of surgery.
The military careliss then if during his physicals they never called her in to get tested.
If its all true…anything is possible. Stay with him and done yu get yu landing by all means.
“The doctor say it’s because his HIV is undetected. So it cannot be transmitted if he keeps taking his meds” He still infected either way.