Good night pinky . I hope you’re doing okay as well as the followers 🥴 so pinky I was in a relationship with this soldier guy the relationship was strong and good I wasn’t in need of anything bare in mind I work as well attention n everything as well as support I got that . Then I pierced my tongue the snake eye and I told him a lie yzt then he was like u did it coz I delete it off my stat but bcoz him av the GB whatsapp him still see it the guy start move some way with mi and all a dat mi feel hurt all up to now cuz him a say him disappointed inna mi coz mi shouldn’t do it and how it a mek mi look like a freak and I messed the rship up coz him even did a say him a mek him mom meet mi and then mi go do mi tongue saying that he don’t like it and I’m hurt coz he’s a really good guy and I don’t know what to do like mi just do some questionable things at times wey just nuh mek sense
Your body is your own to do what you want with it, but you will be judged in this life. If this guy is more conservative then it would turn him off. Such is life. Some ppl are turned off by tattoos, smoking, heavy drinking, piercings, all sorts of things. You just have to tell him you are still the same person on the inside and you did the piercing out of curiosity. He may see you as someone lacking in poor judgment who would not be a good fit for the future. Please me prepared that the relationship may break off completely.
Actions have consequences. If you were lucky enough to find a good man who loved and cared for you, while not needing financial support, it would have been more prudent to discuss your decision with him. Then you could still go ahead with your piercing but you would not have been surprised at his reaction. Good luck