Good Morning #HMID….I want to know if I’m being too much. So I’m pregnant with my first child and turned out to be a single mother. There’s this girl who suppose to be my best friend, when we met she was at her lowest…She lived with me for a few months and we would always pray together for better days. It happen that things turn around drastically for her, she got a job making plenty money and is now on her second car. I’m really happy for her, Things still haven’t turned around for me yet and as you tell it’s worse because I’m without a job and pregnant. Now this the problem, I’m Jamaican but not in Jamaica, actually on a small island. I’m 9 months pregnant right now and I’ve been hopping around getting things done myself……If I should ask her for a ride she would always request gas money or for me to buy her something to eat, I’m just saying she’s making over $500us a week and I’m pregnant and don’t know how I’m going to make it if I’m her best friend isn’t she suppose to be There for me? Also I have some documents to put in which will expire next month so I have to get them in now….She has connections so I’ve been asking her to help me get my documents in, she been telling me ok for months and now I’m way behind to put my documents in and so I ask her to give me the money back that I gave her if she’s not gonna help me…So she was like ok come for your money…I know I’m an adult now 21 actually so I’m not suppose to depend on people but it’s just sad that I have no one to depend on who I expect to be there…
The person you should look to is the baby father or yourself. Give thanks for all the help that she has given to you. She is not obligated to you. Work with her as best as possible as your options seems limited.
Or maybe it is best to come back to Jamaica if you have support .
that’s sucks just keep praying and God will open a way for you – I keep telling you guys LEAVE JAMAICAN PEOPLE ALONE – DEM EVIL N WICKED TOWARDS EACH OTHER ESPECIALLY OUTSIDE OF JAMAICA – MI STAY FAR , – DONT FEEL BAD , YOU NOT DEPENDING ON HER – ITS SEEM LIKE SHE’S THE CLOSET PERSON AROUND TO HELP BUT YOU NEVER KNOW THERES 2 SIDES TO A STORY – DID YOU USED TO TREAT HER BAD AND NOT TELLING????? EITHER WAY KEEP PRAYING ND GOD WILL OPEN DOORS – BIG UP GREENWICH FARM PEOPLE DEM –
Doing which too much… Mek di dutty gal give yuh yuh money. She nuh obligated to help still…but as a real friend she should help if she can. A down time now girl up time a come again… Blessings deh pan yuh a just timing and doe forget to pray…and if she behave nuh way when yuh fi get back yuh money drop dah big load a shit fren deh.
You are responsible for being behind with your documents. I use to have a friend that sounds just like you. You come with stress. If parents are not responsible for their children after age 18, why do you expect so much from your friend. Take ownership over your life, you have a DEPENDENT on the way. Make sure you go on birth control.
Wait deh! Suh how comes you expect so much from this girl and nothing from the man who breed u? The girl have her own life and own responsibilities. She Neva send u guh breed fi a worthless man. You put yourself in that position. Before u try sort out yuhself on the people them island u guh breed. Mi bet seh if the girl post fi r side addi story u a guh be put to shame. Unnu too damn red eye man! Low the girl.