Hi Pinkwall. I would like to get the members opinions on this situation. I am dating this guy for a while now. The thing is, he is living with his grandmother in a setting that is not welcoming. I know he love me but everytime I ask him to move out let us get our life moving – he said yes, but don’t do a thing. He live in a family yard. His grandmother room is exactly beside his. If he whispers in his room she can hear and vise versa. I am planning to move on because I think he is holding me back. Everytime I visit him I feel embarrassed because there’s no privacy. His room is not looking nice. He have all the long time furniture in is room from his granny was a little girl (except for a bed I force him to buy). Do you guys think this is enough reasons to leave him? Bear in mind, I build my house but my mom is living there and I don’t believe in taking a man to live with my mom.–