Hmid. Been with this man fi two years.. pregnant and soon drop. So mi baby fada a soldier(Never was one when wi just meet). I held it down for him till him done him months training.. thing getting so bad cuz mi notice ever since him come back boy nu wah bring mi out no matter how much mi beg him.. him only come home once every blue mood and never once make wi go out or anything but can go pan ends with friends. Wi fi go out lastnight and d boy nu do ntn bout cause arguement and wi end up nu go nu whe.. dis morning mi tell him seh mi ago ask mi best friend (male) bring mi a carib cuz him nu wah go nuwhe. Uk him tell mi seh him hope mi best friend take care a Mi? Is a good thing mi a work and know how fi hold mi own… U see how fast them switch up pan u as soon as yu breed and things start gwaan fi dem… Mi life just dull cuz all mi go is work to yard and mi know mi cya go out after mi have baby fi a very long time… Mi wrong fi beg somebody else follow mi out?
Him nu wah bring mi out and him nu wah mi go nuwhe else with nobody, most a mi friends a man and him know dat from d beginning, I dont f**k with females. Rn I hardly have mi day one friends cuz true him jealous mi afi kinda low dem out likkle bit…. rn him tell mi seh him hope mi man dem make mi happy🤷♀️. Mi hurt but mi will just hold mi own.
Sis, stay strong yah man for your child and yourself. Luckily , by your account you ARE independent . Good for you! Don’t let anyone take liberty of you and whatever situation. Finally, whatever happens, don’t ever deprive that man of SEEING his child. I wish you well.. Don’t ever stoop as low as your circumstances. Rise from this and be the very best mother you can be to that child, carrying no hatred in your heart.
Children, newborns especially, are sensitive to energies .. so try to make yourself happy so that baby can too be happy.
Good luck to you both…