Hmid please..pinky am confused right now…am with my baby daddy for 13 years with two kids we been through alot together we bare hungry and struggle…it was very hard and i was starting to feel like i dont want to stay in the relationship any longer so in november 2021 i told him its over i even left the parish for 2 months to get over him…anyway right through 2022 we talk and every thing but i wasnt haveing sex with him he beg me alot of time and i refused to have sex with him…in october i started having sex with him now and then he told me he start talking to a girl i never seem to care in november i got jealous and want him back but he said he move on…up to this tome i still dont take another man because i was falling on love for him again…in early december i was at his house one night when he went to another room to sleep leaving me and my kids in his room…i woke up and went in the room and say hom on his phone talking to the girl…i never do anything but he hang up the phone.i told him i am jealous i took my phone and call the girl and tell her that they need to stop seeing each other..she told me that he said mi and him break up over a year now (that was true)any way i move in back in his house and everytime i search his phone i see text message and phone calls from the girl…i text her and treaten her…now o noticed she block me and she block my man also…i know that they are not seeing each other again because the girl said he lie to her that we left and she see me at the house every day…now the maon reason why i text you is because the man not showing me any love like in the pass…he hardly have sex with me…he dosnt show me any attention…i cook he eat and everything…we have a business together that we recently start but he is not showing me any love and that is hurting me…he never run me from his house but i feel like he dont love me anymore….he use to beg all my friends and family to tell me to take him back because he love me…but maybe i waited too long to take him back…and he lost the love for me….i really love him pinky but i dont know what to do…am stressing over it…i even start lowering my self esteem to say maybe the girl have a tighter vagina than mine because the girl dont have any kids and she never have sex in often antil she start having sex with my man…i need your viewers advise on what to do about this relationship …its stressing me out…please note that the man dont cuss me or treat me bad he buy food for me …but him just nah show mi no love…if we have sex its just quick with now romance…him not even kiss me up and caress me anymore…what should i do
Sender I don’t want to be harsh but what’s the point in ending the relationship and telling the man you no longer want him, and then attempt to go back? You made a less than smart decision and he move on, based on what you told him and how you treated him.
You had no right to contact the other girl he’s not your man anymore. Based on what you’re saying he’s not interested in you anymore and doesn’t love you anymore. You choose to end something without thinking of the repercussions of whether that is something you truly wanted. When you’re ending any relationship it’s a huge decision and often times you cannot go back, it has nothing to do with tighter or grip. You loved when he was chasing you and when he was intimate with you in October, that was his own confirmation that he moved on. He only engaged to see if there was something was still there but it was over. The current girl brought a fresh start and a new experience that goes beyond ‘sex’.
I think it’s over personally I have been in your ex man’s position, after a while you get tired of convincing your partner to fix things. Once you move on it’s over and you’re at peace and don’t even want them anymore. Now you are doing the chasing.
Kelly, I couldn’t have said it better. Sender concentrate on your children, grow your business the best you can and learn from this.