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Born American but spend a lot of time in Jamaica. I’m 23 years old. My first “relationship” was when I first turned 18 and it was horrible I mean the guy was older and had multiple woman. We both lived in US but he had 2 women there I found out about and 3 in Jamaica that I know of…. Any ways after 4 years of settling for his gyalis lifestyle out of insecurities and whatever I finally left and I haven’t dated since. Welllllll I’ve been in Jamaica over 3 months now just chilling “braffing” 😂😂 sorry I had to … But yeah I met this guy that’s from the area I have a house in always knew of him but he’s always kept to himself … Anyways we have slept together a couple of times now and I really like him although he’s not rich he still treats me to things like honestly I feel like I’m in heaven totally different vibes than my last “situationship” I mean I make 4000+ USD in about 10 days and he probably makes that in like months but I really think it can work…
My family is
Saying no it can’t because I’ll be settling plus they come from that area I’m the only one born in US and they’re saying I’ll be taking up too much responsibility… Since I’ve been a child I’ve known of him and seen him he’s always worked hard because of the lack of opportunities he’s not as educated but he really works hard and I know if wages were similar to US wages he’d be making more money …. I really think it can work because he hasn’t asked me for anything and he makes me so happy … I’m young and inexperienced when it comes to dating but please whats your view ? Do you think it can work ? Do you think he’s faking…. Im a street girl so I’m around men a lot and see how they fake it but he seems so genuine…
All that matters is how he treats you and makes you and makes u feel enuh Sender!!Granted the fact that you’re looking a stable relationship means that with his determination, drive n work ethic combined with your financial resources….the 2 of unno can build an Empire together to unno mutual benefit.
Most importantly by your own admission, he’s not a mix up man who fa name a call pon all kinda shyt…Buss the yute ,give him a chance ,reciprocate his acts of kindness as well cuz you know him nuh have it ,yet he’s making the sacrifice to show how much he cares!!Run some funds pon the yute cuz running some pum pum ought not to be the only token of appreciation a woman shows a good man!Dweet Sender :2thumbup :thumbup :malu :angel
You sound like a drug mule, stop putting down the man and a big up yourself. You really sound confused and go find something worth while to do.
DO NOT WASTE YOUR FUTURE ON THIS MAN, AS SOON AS HE GETS WHAT HE WANTS HE WILL GO JUST LIKE THE OTHERS. THAT IS THE JAMAICAN NORM. THEY ARE VERY UNGRATEFUL. THEY WILL TREAT YOU NICE IN THE START OF THE RELATIONSHIP.GO FIND YOURSELF A EDUCATED MAN LIKE YOURSELF.
Something off about dis… And ur gonna do it anyway suh wah di question again.
There is no gurantee in the
Gsme of love. Follow closely
And listen to your gut feeling.
He may be doing the same thing.
Give it time and it will be
Clear to you
Only you can decide if you want to pursue the relationship. Everyone’s situation is different and sometimes you have to make mistakes to learn. Hopefully you learned from the first ‘situationship’. If the present guy is really all that you say, then I say go for it. No man is perfect and you can’t tell whether or not it will work without trying. Just treat him with respect and do not use vanity to judge his character. I pray you’ll both work out.
P.S. I just got married to my Jamaican husband. I was previously married to another, who treated me like crap. The current one is the complete opposite. If it’s worth having, it’s worth fighting for. Life is all about taking chances, and falling in love. Best wishes for you both.
They are users and takers and when you stop giving no matter how much you have given he will switch once you say you cannot do it once gout enjoy life and just do not waste your resources.