Hello Pinky and Good Morning. Just need the advice of my peeps on the wall. Pease hide my ID.
My boyfriend has not been moving right and has been cheating, so I just decided if he can cheat in a four-yr relationship, I can too. Yu all might say leave but it’s not so easy.I met this guy about a year and a half ago and I fell for him. I know my feelings are real because even though we are not having s*x, I feel the same. Even though he said he loves me too, his actions dont match. I know ur all gonna say that’s my answer, but sometimes men are like that because they are hiding their true feelings.
I dont want to sleep with him because I might end up falling too deep but on the other hand I want to do it because the sexual chemistry we have is great. I dont even have that with my boyfriend. And when I say s*xual chemistry I mean the way he looks at me and touches me. The way he speaks to me when he’s taking off my clothes. The way he kisses me. Is just the s*x alone no happen yet and he’s not rushing me either.
He told me he doesnt want a relationship and I couldnt be with him even if I wanted to, but I am afraid I will fall too deep. I have been holding out so long, so he would ‘win’ if I just gave in like that. But the chemistry is great between us. What do I do?