I am grateful for this story to reach this platform finally. I want to personally apologize to this man’s wife, who, because of me, I have destroyed her perfect family.
I am the one who introduced Yoli to this woman’s husband. So, I feel responsible for the implications of this connection.
This gal and I were friends according to my interpretation of friendship based on the time spent, personal conversations shared, and experiences created. She was introduced to me by my best friend of over 25 years. Because of her behavior and how she went after my ex-man, I no longer speak to my best friend because deep down, I blame her, too. Now, back to why I am here.
Yoli and I were cool, we hung out together, we laughed together and we partied. We were building a true friendship. One day, I told her I wanted to introduce her to my ex-man to do business. Now, we all have dated men in relationships knowingly and unknowingly because we are human, and **ish happens. However, there is a girl code and respect for people in the same circle of friends. There are men in our lives who are off-limits to your friends or people you know. Although I am married now, he was a part of my history and was off-limits.
Anyway, I introduced them to do business, knowing she was in construction. Now, remember that Yoli was someone I spoke to daily. Well, after I introduced my ex-man to Yoli on a 3-way call. After that initial conversation, she called me to say she didn’t want to do business with him because he’s showoff and nuff. Meh seh; after that, I never heard from her again.
Yes, I am mad because only a dutty gal would do that. And don’t even have the courtesy to call, text, say something; I met your ex, and I actually do like him. She just tek the people dem husband and don’t say a word to me.
She knew the man was in a full-blown relationship with this woman.
Often times, we give the side chick a pass and black the main woman, who innocently doesn’t know they have a dutty man. And truly, the other woman should be blamed because they are coming after other people’s men.
She is a snake, the same way she took Popcaan, very sneaky. (More details in the book)
Today, I will let this go because, finally, I can speak my truth. The wife doesn’t deserve negative comments; she held that man down for over 20+ years. I understand you all looking at Yoli and her hott body and saying she tek ah gal man.
If the man wanted to leave his wife, he would leave. If you are that beautiful, with your own money, and sexxy body, you shouldn’t be a CERTIFIED SIDE CHICK.
You should have a man for yourself or, if you are taking somebody man, the man would have to leave his wife because no good good body gal should share a man, and after 9pm, some gal caan call man. Dem must know the Gal Policy. Chuu Kranium.
The man must leave the other woman for you. For over two years, and you are still the CERTIFIED SIDE CHICK. Stay tuned for my book, the Ultimate Betrayal.