Ive been with him for 10 years , he abused me over those times, each time I tried to leave he wouldn’t let me, he hit me even while I was pregnant, pinky i fought back even tho I’m not strong enough. He cheats on me regular but dont want me to have male friends, I got so tired, I was staying at home, I got up and look a job, he wanted me to stop work, I decided not to, he started rubbing girls in my face, he searched my phone and saw me texting with a co worker who is my team mate but because its a male he got angry, pinky I swear on my kids life there was nothing inappropriate, he started fighting me, he left multiple scars, I build with him over those years and because of my 2 girls I have bo where to go
He started posting pics of him and girls, also videos with him kissing a girl, the least little thing him style mi up and when i answer its a problem, yesterday after he posted up a video with him and the girl, i got tired and I posted screenshots with me and one of my friends texting, I specifically find the part where he told me he loves me(a friendly love by that) he got mad he came home packed my things throw them out of the house
I have no where to go so I put my things back in and locked the room door that i was in, pinky he kicked the door off and wet the bed
He wet all my clothes up he is determined for me to leave, the last time I decided i am going to leave my little daughter begged me not to go because I told her its gonna take some time for her to live with me, the littlest one had no idea what was going on, he also begged and say he was gonna change, I stayed for my kids. He actually was treating me better. And because he bought a new vehicle he changed and started to mistreat me again and its getting worse, I’m drained i feel like giving up
You need to love yourself,ask a friend to stay with them,you’re working,then u can try save and rent a little place.U need to leave that man don’t want u,leave before him kill u
He is showing you that he doesn’t want you. When people shows you who you are believe them. You said you’re working, get a cheap place to rent. It might not be what you’re use to but believe me, it will be better than what you’re going through because you’ll have peace.
This nuh safe!!
He didn’t change because of a new vehicle. He was always abusive, remember? It’s been 10 years at some point earlier you must have known with the treatment he’ll one day put you out. Why didn’t you start making preparations at least 5 years ago to escape? I am sorry I can’t be too sympathetic with you.
Sweet heart leave the kids and find someone to stay with until u can rent a place if u don’t walk away this man will kill u…don’t look on what u both built together the man want u out so leave peacefully
When man show oonu say them nuh want oonu, oonu need fi stop try hang on tooth and nail. Him nuh want u. Him know u need him and can’t do better so him a give u his ass to kiss. Really and truly as a woman wid daughters u nah set no example cuz u sit there taking abuse and telling your kid shit bout will be a while. You busy a try mek a man jealous when the man don’t want u. When oonu go learn? Di man dem a kill oonu claat cah dem hate oonu. A man dem waah lie down wid and some woman head jus thick suh and nah get the message. Get out. Him nuh want u in his place. Go do sumn wid uself bout u a try mek man jealous when u know u nuh have place fi sleep. Kmt.
Not one lie u tell . She noh wah leave.
A your fault , you act like u wah leave, but u love d abuse , stop using the kids fi excuse . A d fuck u.love .
He will end up kill u u don’t love your daughters leave now the man don’t want u
That why me say woman be independent for most love you self more and see there have two daughter cnt keep he abuse n make excuse say because you kids move out will find way r even get help hate hearing this
Foremost see me different type a b me nuh put no man over my happiness if me see like he want disrespect me run him me na did dun Inna nth wah me happy we Inna no relationship with no man wise up wan love you frist
That man does not want you. Wet up di bed and wet up your clothes? Miss get out of the man place. Go kotch with someone for a while then rent a little room for yourself. Save up your money. Leave that man alone, him don’t want you. Stop play wifey to single men!!!