I’m asking for yours and your readers advice. Simplicity, Phantom, Marie, Simone, Tawkechuet, Little Willie, Latty, Needle, Quena, Original smh, Yardie, Sketel, Muraski(sp), Real, Real Chat, Terri, Anonymous and everyone. I’ll try to make it short, but it may be impossible.
I’m very close to one of my cousins, we’re more like sisters. One year and 4 months ago she was diagnosed with (won’t disclose) and given 6 months to live. With radiation and chemo therapies 3-5 days per week, she’s still alive, thanks to God, prayers and the incredible Drs. She’s been in and out the hospital 17 times in 2016 through now, for surgeries and complications. I’ve never missed any of her Dr visits or hospital stays.
I schedule my vacation before or after her Dr visits. Two weeks ago she was rushed to the hospital after fainting at her parents house. She ended up being there for 10 days. Through all this, she remains positive and strong. She has 5 more treatments to go and then we’ll know where things are.
Here’s the issue:
She’s been with her man for 5 years and he has never visited her not one time out of the 17 times she’s been in the hospital, including 2 weeks ago. NEVER!! His excuse is that he can’t deal with seeing her in the hospital. But yet he flies all over USA to parties using her credit cards for his plane tickets. He’s very selfish and he does not work!! He is a washed up hustler. She’s enabling this bum and not setting an example for her son. He was good to her and once she got sick, he changed.
I’ve spoken to her about the situation and she brushes it off. I think he’s toxic with demons and as long as she stays with him she may not fully heal. I really try to stay out of her personal business, but it’s hard because he’s using her. Her son is away in college (close to home, but stays on campus). He too have spoken to her about him, again she brushes it off. I’m not making any excuses for her, but I’m wondering if she wants the companion because she’s ill. My cousin is such a sweet girl, with a heart of gold and it hurts us to see him taking advantage of her because she’s ill.
My final straw:
This past Friday 3/31, my sister sent me a pic of him hugged up with a chick in the club. I told my sister not to approach them, so she decided to leave.
Here’s where I need advice:
Should my sister and I confront him with the pics in front of her? Should we confront him on our own? Should we show the pics to her parents? Or mind our business? My husband told me to stay out of it.