I’ve been reading your site for a couple years now and I truly enjoy it, especially the comments. I know you do a lot of mix up and man court stories but today I just need some advice on both. I was hoping your readers could help me out as well.
So I have a friend who has been talking to a popular DJ in Jamaica for a couple years now. By talking I mean they have never met face to face but they message each other quite often. I’ve warned her from day 1 to be careful because the men in this industry are wutless and will use you to get what they want and then dash you away. For quite sometime things have been a little suspicious because he used to write her every night but for the past year now things have been off. Well to make a long story short a couple nights ago she get a message on FB and it’s some woman claiming to be his wife. Yes his wife! She write up a paragraph about how she need to leave him alone before she get one bax. My friend was shaken up by the message and confused. She called me to ask what she should do and I told her to confront him. She asked if he was married and he laughed it off and said no. Now come to find out him just had a baby the other day and di woman send her pics and all. I told her that from the beginning that he was up to no good. Even with all this come to light she still nuh convinced. Mind you this man is a big big DJ at a popular radio station enuh. So it’s not hard to find out if he’s lying but since she’s not in Jamaica she only taking his word. Met I need to know what to tell her in this situation because her heart and head not in the same place and I don’t want her to be heartbroken but worst I don’t want her to be looked at as a matie either because she’s not that kind of character. Should I leave it alone and let her find out the hard way?