Question: Gay or not? A woman involved with a man for over 8 years and recently found over 40 downloaded porn movies all of the movies had either transexual men or gay on gay porn.. This man lives in the home and while he stepped out these files were found by his woman. She says she doesn’t know what to think but he did some thing in the past that made her question his sexuality. The young man is a popular D.J in the Jamaican community.