Goodnight Hmid
I’ve had a friend since high school and we ended up living in the same city with our s/o. So as friends do we’d vent to each other about our relationship problems . Her boyfriend kept cheating on her and I’d just listen to her vent, because there’s nothing else I could do. One morning she called and told me she was pregnant and after work I got two more test for her and we took them together, I was so excited as if me did a breed to , bay plans we start make. So boom couple weeks after she call me and tell me him start cheat again knowing she pregnant and I could hear the stress in her voice, so I said to her let’s go to the movies and get dinner . I guess that wasn’t okay because he was pissed when I picked her up , when me and my bf went to drop her home now he locked the inside lock so she couldn’t open the door and we were waiting for her to go inside from the car. She start beating in the door , my yute fly out and start box her up so me start scream.
My bf telling me to stay in the car and mind my business and I just felt like shit . She went inside and he walk towards the car saying he’ll shoot me and a heap a bs so my bf park saying make him come , and I’m just like let’s go I don’t want no problem . Finally him drive off, and I call her sister and told her what happened. After that we spoke for awhile and then I just stopped taking her calls. I felt bad and it ate me up, when she was almost due I call her and got gifts for the baby, and we haven’t spoke since . I hate confrontation and arguments, now I feel like a bad friend and don’t know how to move forward .
Don’t ever feel bad. for doing the right thing.Get another FRIEND
she did enough
Not gonna lie better u stay away for real. If she a get lick suh and still choose to stay with the man regardless. There is nothing more u can do about it. Leave it to time she’ll come around or time will heal these wounds. But when man and woman in a them bagga bagga is best to just listen and don’t say anything because at the end of the day when u give ur input the man ago end up hate u and the friend still ago stay with the man or woman vice versa. Man and woman relationship problems overall is best to just listen than give inputs. Cause at the end of the day no matter what u say di man nah lef the woman and the woman nah lef the man.
Hear hear!!
True words.
You did nothing wrong . You did your best . It’s your friend that needs to stand up for herself now
“After that we spoke for awhile and then I just stopped taking her calls. I felt bad and it ate me up, when she was almost due I call her and got gifts for the baby, and we haven’t spoke since”
Why you cut her off?
If it’s withoutout cause then yea you a “bad” friend. The two of you coming from far so you could a just chill. If her conflicts wid de man affect your life deeply then you have cause to part ways.
She may miss you though because you give a sisterly impression to me.
She did all she could. Had a similar convo this morning, after awhile their lives affect yours because unoo care for eachother. Sometimes you cant just stand by and qatch somebody go yhrough abuse, you haffi walk away.
You still reached out and got stuff for baby. Im sure you will be there when she and the man lef. Until then there is no reason for you both to go through that abuse together. Ypu have feelings too.
Not a bad friend at all.
You are not a bad friend, you just fear for your life bcuz the man say him going to shoot you and you dont know how to deal with all that excitement.
Girl from the man a threaten fi give out gunshot I don’t wrong you. Leave people and their relationship alone yah.