Subject: Wutliss babyfathers
I juss saw a big explosion on Instagram between a girl and her babyfadda. It lead me to write you, because I thought only a few of these man were heartless like my children’s father. I am clueless as to why these men have a bunch a kids and then make it seems like a problem when it’s time to maintain them. I barely get $350 per month from him(not court ordered) and he thinks he is giving me heaven and earth. If I call to say I need a sneaker or a pants for one of the kids. The first thing he tells me is that “ I give you $350 per month and you still ah Stress me out”. Nothing pisses me off more than the fact that he is not taking care of none of his kids(5 of dem 4 diff moms) nor spend quality time with them. It erks the crap out of me to see him in every name brand while my child has to wear Ross and value plus shoes and clothes.
Love my children to death, but they say you know who ur man is when you have kids by him or leave him.. I don’t understand how women to lay up with him and not inquiring why he never has any of his kids or why none lives with him. This man is 39 y/o and life to him is ,partying and looking a new gal every week. He has the latest Iphone plus a side phone to keep up with his gal farm. What human being would waste so much money and then turn around cry broke when their kids needs it. Every week that god send he is in the mall shopping for himself and not a brief for his kids. I am to the point where I wanted to harm him but I thought about my kids and who will take care of them when I go to prison. This man tell so much lie it is ridiculous. He tells these fools I’m blocking him from seeing his kids, when god knows I can use the help at least once a month. I can’t count
one event or dr visit he was ever present at for his kids. He is always busy doing nothing but being a sperm donor.
My sweetest revenge is to have the Sheriff serve his child support paper in the clubs one of these nights he is guaranteed to be present. These men need to do better, If they can’t them fi stop breed up di woman dem and meck dem pickni turn problem child because of broken home and absent fathers. How you buying liquour in the club while your child has no lunch money or school fee,new shoes, clothes to look like they at least have a trying father. He is one of the reasons why I do not meet men in clubs, because they are all impressionist.
I hate to sound ungratefull, but I do not even call him to ask for anything for the kids. I wait until the piece of conscience of his kick in then he do it by that time it is already done. I have excellent families that donate more cash than what he offers monthly. Now he blames me for my kids not even acknowledging or get excited him when he shows his face. To be honest they are tired of his lies and false promise, so he is nobody to them anymore. My son saw him being a pretend step daddy to his new chick son and complained that he doesn’t even come get him but he is holding this little boy hand while in the mall.
To set the record straight, I was married to this loser for 10years and left him after our second child was born as he was a serial cheater and AIDS was not going to be my wake up call. Ever since I left it seems as if he hated my kids as well as me that’s the only explanation I can suggest, because of the way he treats my kids. Men yall need to do better, because a pissed off Baby mother/Ex is ur worst enemy.