Dear Nicki Minaj,
I own
AllHipHop has been historically uber supportive of the rapper Nicki Minaj. That’s YOU, homie! When I say historically, we can take it all the way back to when you had to stand in line to get into parties or those grimy underground videos you once pumped out on the streets. You know, that period of time before Lil Wayne and Young Money. Along the way, something changed. This isn’t the change everybody wants to talk about though. No hate there. AllHipHop had published an old image for some reason or another some years ago. You remember the one of you licking a lollipop and evoking the now-classic image of Lil Kim in all of her crotchiness? Of course you remember your version of that image, because you asked us to take it down, through a member of the team. The team member let us know that Nicki is no longer on that and is doing a lot to promote a new image – “blah blah blah.”
But, guess what? Not only do I run AllHipHop, I’m a father too.
For moment there, I felt like I had briefly peered into the deepest recesses of Nicki Minaj’s true inner self, a being that cares how this ratchet s**t affects my kid. I said to myself, “Self, how cool is this? Nicki is already evolving into somebody that my daughter may get to listen to on my watch. Maybe.” I’ve been in the music game a minute now so I know how it goes. So, when I peeped the artwork for your latest single, I wasn’t even shocked. I was just disappointed. The song: “Anaconda.” The art: your booty in a thong. As a man, I can appreciate the virtues of your perfect posterior. The dad guy is not a happy camper, particularly now that is lil’ girl is transitioning into a young lady.
Now, the most popular, current Black female rapper starts overtly pushing her hyper-sexualized image again?
Just my luck.
I’m trying to raise a young girl that will eventually grow into something greater than the both of us. I know that this requires great parenting, great education, great luck and an assortment of great influences. If sure you know the influence you wield but now. If you told the “Barbs” to scratch my eyes out, some would attack without thinking about it. I’m sure some will also replicate the “Anaconda” image without thinking about it too. Your original image already has 256,817 (and counting) likes under the original Instagram picture you posted so I venture that your average girl could strive to get a couple hundred likes from her friends. Is this the path you want to lead impressionable kids down?
Make no mistake about it, you are a leader now.
I love the era of Hip-Hop where I found my influences. They were all over the place, ranging from Chuck D and Public Enemy to LL Cool J to KRS-One and Boogie Down Productions and others like De La Soul. Even the so-called gangster rappers had something to offer. Ice Cube, Scarface and Willie D of the Geto Boys, and Ice-T all get nods for being influential in my upbringing. I don’t know all of those that impacted you as a young woman, but how dope would it be if you transcended what people expected of you? Like, how cool would it be for your transformation to extend beyond NOT wearing blonde wigs and crazing clothing?
This year alone, Black people lost titans in Maya Angelou and Ruby Dee. Those women were entertainers as well and the impact they have had on the lives of their constituency and never be understated. They SERVED the people and they knew that, without that mutual love and respect, we both cease to exist. Ruby and Maya didn’t live perfect lives, but their imperfections made their greatness all the more clear. Imagine you being regarded in such a way? The way Lauryn Hill, Queen Latifah and MC Lyte have been for their communities? I know, times have changed, but one thing is for sure: careers can come and go. Legacy stays.
I can’t lie. My kid barely knows who you are and if she does, its rooted in “American Idol” or something like that. (She does like your bars on “Shanell’s song “Cupid’s Got A Gun.”) I’ve sheltered her on purpose though, all the while letting her read about heroic females in music and culture. As she gets older, it will be harder for me to limit her exposure to you, especially if you continue to do headline-grabbing moves like the “Anaconda” cover. I don’t want to EVER see her posted up one day emulating you the way I “fought the power” like I was Chuck D’s little brother back in 1989. Or, the way you emulated Kim.
For a moment, forget my daughter and lets talk about you. My interactions and observations tell me you are this sweet, kind person at heart. When you get a quiet moment answer the following questions.
How is Onika Tanya Maraj doing?
How does she truly feel about Nick Minaj right now?
What is your higher purpose with young girls (and boys)?
What is the message you are sending when you determine how you will inspire these young people?
How will boys, already conditioned to sexualize girls at a young age, internalize this big booty of yours?
Where does the gimmick end and you begin?
Believe it or not, I care. I think you are dope. You’ve bodied some of my favorite artists on songs like “Monster.” Yet the possibly of you transcending this gnaws at me, because I know you don’t have to succumb to bottom feeding.
When the request was made to remove that image from my site, I complied. I complied – not because I had to – but because I truly respected you for taking that position. On the lecture circuit, I’ve even defended you from those that feel you are a detriment to the community, down to the Barbie imagery. I’ve done this based on what I think is a glimpse of what you really desire , which is to be a more positive role model of some sort for young girls who are under siege on in these streets. Now, you take this squatting position on the cover of a song called “Anaconda,” which I am sure radio will play until its played out. I’ll be on Spotify though and so will my daughter when she’s with me.
All in all, this is a letter born from love. A love of my kid, a love of Hip-Hop and a love for the potential that lives in one Onika Tanya Maraj aka Nicki Minaj.
Chuck Creekmur
P.S. You think you could follow me on Twitter again?


  1. wow what a letter ! kill me at he end about will you follow me on twitter again ? he is right , but he should know its business ! sex sells ! and she is trying to make money ! sad but true !

  2. Well this man must care an iota caz fi write dis yah epistle yah. Well im rite still, a hope she read it and tek it to heart and nuh baddah guh hype and chat all kindah crap. Mi did shock bout dah covah suh till mi not even baddah comment. Nicki sometimes unu fi left di sex outah unu wuk wen unu can sing and write as u seh, dem deh sexual exploits deh nuh necessary mammi. Let u music shine and u behind stay covered.
    PS.. start fallah di man agin pan twittah…lol

  3. He is very right….the nature of the universe simply states, to whom much is given much is expected, especially if its for the greater good for everyone. So yes, when you become a public figure you must “try” key word try to steer the public on the right path…..

  4. Bullshit it is his job as a father to raise his child not the a rapper in the music industry, it’s also his job to be his daughter’s role model. Lazy m’fer needs to raise his kid and stop looking to others to blame when they fail. Men like him are funny blame the women first, male rappers aren’t controversial and highly sexualized ? does he remember uncle luke who is coming up with an ass eating school and too short who admitted to sleeping with thousands of women to name a few.

    1. This letter would not have been written if she did not ask him to take the picture down. What he is saying is that she is saying she trying to be more classy but them going back to her old ways. He doesn’t sound to me like a lazy father. He didsay he monitors what his daughterread and listen to.

  5. Hypocrite…. though he may be right, he should write the same letter to male artists when they make songs about women. I’m sure his daughter listens and loves those rappers too.

    1. As a mother of Son’s I would not address any negative image a Woman portrays on behalf of my sons because certain things will not affect them. As a Father of a little girl what would be the need to address male rappers especially when little girls learn first about what a man should be from their Fathers.

    2. Goodnight Met, Goodnight All!
      tell dem Really! him need fi hold a seat a Hip-hop weekly ar where eva him claim fi own. They really kill me with this “image” thing. Sounds to me like he missed his appointment for lingerie shopping at Le Perla if you ask me. This letter wreaks of BS, SORRY! So many contradictions here. I am sure if I were to go on his website, it would be glorifying rappers who demean women and leave the younger generation of boys to become oblivious to the respect of women; or simply turn them into GAYS with the swagilicious BS. Nicki is squatting in a thong for a song called Anaconda…and?! Did he write a big draws letter to Miley Cyrus when she twerked on a married man on stage? Again I see so many contradictions in this letter.
      He says: but how dope would it be if you transcended what people expected of you? Like, how cool would it be for your transformation to extend beyond NOT wearing blonde wigs and crazing clothing?Where does the gimmick end and you begin?
      ——> Believe it or not, I care. I think you are dope.<——— :bingung
      Listen CHUCKINA CREEKMUR if you really "cared" you would keep your nose where it belongs, overseeing your website and respecting the artists that keep it running in the first place. THE NERVE!

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