Morning. I just want some advice on a matter please… so I’m in a 2 year relationship right now and I am tired… my girl is pretty and so but I have 5 problems with her.. 1) she lie-She lie for the simplest reasons!! She will cheat and when everybody a tell me she a lie all when the nigga weh she fuck say a true!!..2) she disgusting bad!, this girl will walk in a room full of people and not have the common curtesy to say hello…3) she cheats and complains for the least thing I do.. if I don’t but the right bread brand this girl make one bagga noise and call me names! (She’s vegan).. 4)she very bright and she always a throw it inna me face-she have 15 subjects and 6 cape while I have just 5 and she cuss everyday how dunce I am…5) sex wise she’s too wild for me-she doesn’t have the best vagina but I work with it cause this my girl and mi happy with her but when mi sit down and meds all the stylings she a gwaan with I have to wonder why I don’t give her a taste of her own
Medicine.. now fast forward to last night… I made dinner and she came over my little place and we had a great time! This girl ago complain now after everything I’ve done that my food is too salt!!!!… I got so fucking mad and told her that her pussy is too loose, I told her that she is too lazy, I told her that she is too self-centered, I told her all the things I mentioned above!!!She waa put her hands on me! Okay before I let it go any further I just kindly pack her up and put her thru the front door..
2 years of stress!!!! I tried so hard for her!!! Damn I never wanted to hurt this girl but there’s so much a nigga can take yow!!! I done!! I had some money for her from last week that she asked me for and I sent it with her mother to give her this morning. I’m so tired!!!
Sometimes you just have to love some people from a distance enuh and let them find themselves!! I loved her so much yow.. she wasn’t the best but when she’s good she’s good and even tho her property wasn’t top notch I still lived her cause she good in bed and I was comfortable. It’s not always about a right vagina.. it’s how u do your thing but… Unu think I was too harsh? I’m done but I don’t know if I was too harsh with her..
Move on dude. Seems like you were compromising on a lot of issues. Plus, you cannot comfortably be in a relationship with anyone who makes you feel less of a person. If you are not seen or treated as an equal it was bound to fail. I would venture to say you have some self-esteem and self-worth issues of your own that you need to address and work on. If you can afford professional therapy then give it a go, you can also read self-improvement and empowerment books to help build up your self-esteem. It will be hard and quite possibly a lifelong process, but you should give it your all so that you can succeed materially in life and also attract a worthy partner. You deserve someone who will cherish you and see you as an equal. Let this girl be, she is built for a different type of man, not you.
The best response I’ve read in a min…The girl is clearly not his type and he should be relieved…
You did the right thing. If you continue to accept her condescending behaviour it will only get worst as she will have lost any respect she had for you. When you find someone who really appreciate you, then you will find true happiness. Listen to Errol Dunkley ‘ happiness forgets what loneliness remember’. Continue moving on.
One of the best written stories I’ve read on here in a while !!!!
Man I can’t wait for you to write another when you and Mrs right find one another. I think sender 1 summed it up. This girl is built for a different kind of man…say..the type wey spit ina pu**y and will bax bax har roun ah likkle and will kip ooman pon har and nuh pay her nuh mind. It seems you’ve had enough and did what’s right. Think of it this way: you dodged a bullet. You didn’t have kids with the girl and can leggo wid peace ah mind.
Stop salt the food. If you wanna piss me off, give me salt food, especially if I’m hungry. Cuz i cant eat it!!!!!!
If she sleeps around and you still stick around, no wonder she takes so much liberties.
It seems like you really love her but you have to love you more. The fact that she messes with your self esteem is reason enough to let her go. Her education doesn’t make her any better than you, but it seems that is all she has going for herself. She wasn’t for you., you deserve better than what she can offer. You should use this time to self reflect and also see where you went wrong so that you do not make the same mistakes with your future wife. Your food being salt should have never led to an argument, so that is all the proof you need to know that the relationship wasn’t for you. You are a nice guy and a good woman will cherish you. A lot of men wouldn’t have sent that money (unless it is owed of course) to her via her mother. Move on and live a happy life because that is your purpose here – to love and be loved and be happy.