Pinky please HMID I’m here seeking advice from your wallers, I’m with this guy for 1 year and some months. From the get go I knew that I was the side chick but I really liked him so I accepted being the side chick. He have his baby mother and I respect her and everything. When we started out a little over a year ago we went to get tested because he said he don’t like using condoms and it’s his baby mother alone him sleeping with, I respected that and we went for a check up all the results came back negative and we started having sex. The sex was amazing and I then started to fall for him, I got pregnant and I abort it without his knowledge, I wanted to tell him but I didn’t want to ruin his relationship. I confined in a friend who I thought was a friend and she told him what I did. He confronted me and I told him the truth and he broke up with me I didn’t know he wanted the child. He avoided me for 1 month 3 weeks and 6 days until one day he called me wanted to see me, long story short
We got back together and everything was okay until a month ago I started feeling serious pain in my abdomen I thought it was nothing so I used home remedies but days later it got worst. I went to the doctor and they told me I’m infected with gonorrhea they proscribed me medication and I went home to treat myself. It hurts to know that I caught an STI from someone I thought I could trust. He was the only man I’ve been with for over a year and I thought I was the only side chick. I have not told him I’m scared to even tho I know he was the one that gave it to me. I’ve been avoiding him ever since. He’s been calling and texting saying he missed me and wated to see me and I don’t know what to do. In my mind I want to be done with him but my heart cries differently. What should I do?
If you want a belly full of aids continue with the relationship. You know you should move on so go ahead
Men kno from one day or two days about that STD especially gonorrhea he knew he gave it to u got cleann calling u down is to see if u would say anything about it tryst me run fi yuh lifee it could ah worst HIV and u the sideas jahjah
Men know when they’re infected especially with gonorrhea.. do not go back. Love yourself first. You know what you need to do.
I think u already know what to do. Stay far from that man
How yuh fi trust the man and a tek ya tek next gyal man❗️ Him a cheat pon him baby mada with you smh so how the hell you trust him listen to mi nuh ya tlk rubbish eno miss lady a could and aids you test fa eno but heart a seh something else lol hey becareful cause like you not even love your self eno!!! Find yuh own man and settle down nuh settle with no gyal man and breed fi them a the same rass thing them ago do you kmft
Lmaoooooo u trust the man that’s cheating on his woman with you. The man who a LIE to him baby mom go be honest wid you a random pum pum outta road. U stupid slow. A man u need suh? Guh order one on Amazon or sumn man.
You’re not his only side chick and he is not a faithful man in the first place. Thank God is only gonorrhea him gave you and not AIDS. Get a man for yourself dear and use a condom every time, trust no one with your secrets not even your friends, because a lot of them are fake like goods made in China. Trust only God and Him will bring you to de right persons or bring the right persons to you